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Dr. Tony Evans: Don’t miss the God moment just because you’re on a detour. God wants to use you in your detour. You could be delaying your own destiny by increasing your own detour because you’re so focused on you that you’re missing the blessing of the ministry to somebody else.

Guest (Male): This is The Alternative broadcast, featuring the timeless biblical teachings from the archives of Dr. Tony Evans. The shortest distance between two points may be a straight line, but when God takes us on a tangent, we need to recognize what He’s doing and why. Dr. Evans will help us today as he unveils the lessons we can learn from Genesis 39. Let's join him.

Dr. Tony Evans: We started out with Joseph as a 17-year-old teenager who had a dream. And then we watched him go on a detour in a pit, be sold like a slave, wind up in Potiphar’s house. Today, I want to answer the question about the proof of detours. How do I know if I’m on God’s detour? How do I know I’m not just unlucky? How do I know that things are just not working out?

How do I know that this is a detour God has put me on so that even though I’m on a detour, I’m on a detour in His will, not out of His will? How do I know that? How do I know that this is not just circumstances in life? How do I attach God to my situation if, in fact, He is with my situation? I want to give you four proofs, if you will, that you’re on God’s detour toward your destiny from the life of Joseph.

Proof number one that you’re on God’s detour toward your destiny is that you are being persecuted for righteousness. You’re suffering because of good, not bad. Verse 19, "Now when his master heard the words of his wife, which she spoke to him, saying, This is what your slave did to me, his anger burned; so Joseph’s master took him and put him into a jail, the place where the king’s prisoners were confined; and he was there in the jail."

Why is he in the jail? Because he was accused of a rape he didn’t commit. He is suffering for doing right. He said no to Potiphar’s wife, she lied on him, got him put in jail. He is suffering, he is being persecuted because he was obeying God. When you are being persecuted, suffering, or struggling because you are obeying God, your struggle is right where God wants you to be. Because you’re being persecuted for righteousness’ sake.

The word persecution means to be treated in an evil manner. Persecuted for righteousness means I’m being treated in an evil manner because I sought to obey God. The most critical test you will ever face is the test of suffering when you didn’t do anything wrong. When you did exactly what God told you to do and you’re paying a price tag and it’s not fair. Because all you were trying to do was what God said and you’re paying the penalty for righteousness’ sake.

Joseph is suffering for his faith and he’s right smack-dab in the will of God. And it wasn’t in a pleasant place. Notice verse 20, he was placed in the king’s prison and confined and he was there in jail. The word jail there in the Hebrew refers to a dungeon. Psalm 105 verses 15 to 18 says Joseph was thrown in a prison and his hands and feet were shackled.

So he’s not just in a deep hole in a dark place, he’s in a dark place with no mobility or limited mobility because Psalm says he was shackled. So he wasn’t able to maneuver. He was trapped. And he’s right smack-dab in the will of God. A lot of people think because things are going bad I’m out of the will of God. No. If you were doing right and things are going bad, you're smack-dab in the will of God, you’re just on a detour.

So the way you know number one that you’re right where God wants you to be is you’re suffering because you were doing what God wanted you to do. That’s number one. Number two, the second way you know you’re on God’s detour, the second proof you have you’re where God wants you to be is God doesn’t take you out of it but joins you in it. God didn’t keep Daniel from the lions' den, he just joined him in the lions' den.

So God, because He’s taking you through a detour, may not cut off the detour but He jumps in the car. Stay with me here. Verse 21, "But the Lord was with Joseph, extending kindness to him." Verse 23, "Because the Lord was with him." And where is he? In jail. Because he’s being persecuted. So the key to your situation is not first where you are, it is who’s there with you while you’re there. God was with him.

Verse 22, "The chief jailer committed to Joseph’s charge over all the prisoners who were in the jail; in that whatever was done there, he was responsible." So he got a promotion in jail. So the way God shows up is not delivering him out of it but showing His presence in it. So the next way you know is when God shows up and gives you a hint of His presence in the middle of a situation He’s not yet ready to take you out of.

Now let me take it a little bit further because you may be thinking, but how do I really know it’s God? Here’s the secret. Here’s the way you know it’s God showing up when He joined you: watch this, a second time. In the early part of chapter 39, Joseph is a slave, he goes to Potiphar’s house and what does Potiphar do? Potiphar makes him head over everything. He’s now in jail.

What does the jailer do? Make him head of everything. Because the biblical principle is by two or three witnesses shall a matter be confirmed. The first way you know that you're right where God wants you to be is you’re suffering because you’re doing right. Doing what you know God wanted you to do. And the second thing is God shows up, especially twice, in some way to where you hear His voice, He gives you a little something-something.

Number three, the proof that you’re on God’s detour even though you’ve not yet arrived at your destiny. Number three, watch this now. When God gives you a ministry to other people who are going through the same thing you’re going through. He gives you people to serve while you’re suffering. Watch the story. Chapter 40 verse 1, "It came about after these things, the cupbearer and the baker for the king of Egypt offended their lord, the king of Egypt."

"Pharaoh was furious with his two officials, the chief cupbearer and the chief baker; so he put them in confinement in the house of the captain of the bodyguard," that’s Potiphar, "in the jail, the same place where Joseph was imprisoned." So we got two guys who are put in prison with Joseph who work for Pharaoh the king. One is a cupbearer, the other is a baker. So they have something in common: food.

The job of the cupbearer was to drink what was being offered to the king before the king could drink it in case poison had been put in it. Because if poison had been put in it to kill Pharaoh, the cupbearer would drink it first. The cupbearer would die while everybody else would be saying long live the king. Cupbearer like Nehemiah was a cupbearer for the king, it was also like a personal assistant.

The baker is making all the goodies, he’s making all the cakes and the cookies and all the stuff for the party. So they both have food in common. It says that Pharaoh was angry with them and put them in prison. As you’re going to find out, this was a serious charge because one of them is going to have capital punishment. So whatever this thing is that’s bothering the king for him to jail his cupbearer, personal assistant and taster, and his baker, must have been a monster since it’s going to cost one of these guys his life.

And I think I know what it is. Verse 20, "Thus it came about on the third day, which was Pharaoh’s birthday, that he made a feast for all of his servants and lifted up the head of the chief cupbearer and the head of the chief baker among his servants." So the king is having a birthday party. So his party is a feast, it involves food. It includes all of his servants especially his cupbearer and his baker. But he throws them in jail.

So what do they have in common? Food. What’s at the birthday party? Food. What’s bothering Pharaoh? That there is the possibility that there is something that is designed to take his life of which he has not been informed and he doesn’t know whether it’s the cupbearer or the baker who’s responsible, so he sends them both in jail until he figures it out. Because they have one thing in common and that’s food. And Pharaoh’s getting ready to have a food feast.

So when you put two and two together, you wind up with a serious situation that put them in the dungeon. But watch this now. Who would have thought, who would have thunk it? That two criminals would hold the key to Joseph’s destiny. Who would have thought two criminals would hold the key to his detour and ultimately the key to his destiny, which is why Hebrews chapter 13 says to entertain strangers because you could be entertaining messengers of God unaware.

You’re not just talking about picking up people from the street, he’s talking about people God placed in your path who are going through the same thing you’re going through. Joseph in jail, they’re in jail. You see the tendency when you’re suffering is to be self-absorbed. The tendency when you’re suffering is to think about three people: me, myself, and I. The tendency when you’re suffering is forgetting everybody else because I got my own problems.

When during suffering you are to look for ministry that agrees with your suffering. You ought to look for people going through the same stuff you’re going through so you can minister to them while you wait for God to minister to you. See what we do is we get selfish with our suffering. But God brought these two men and look at Joseph. Joseph saw that they, verse 6, were dejected.

He asked Pharaoh’s officials who were with him in confinement, "Why are your faces so sad today?" Guess what? He’s worried about their dejection and their sad face while he’s in jail. Because one of the ways God moves you through your detours is through your ministry. So if you are unwilling to minister to somebody else, you could be delaying your own destiny by increasing your own detour because you’re so selfish and so self-centered and so focused on you that you’re missing the blessing of the ministry to somebody else.

Guest (Male): Dr. Evans will dig deeper into that idea when he continues our lesson in a moment. First, though, the message we are listening to today is from Tony’s series called Joseph: Detours to Destiny. In these lessons, you’ll discover that even the disappointments, delays, and unexpected turns you never would have chosen can become part of God’s plan to lead you where He wants you to be.

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Dr. Tony Evans: Now watch this, the two guys have a dream. Joseph interprets the dream. He says to the cupbearer, "Your dream means you’re going to be released in three days." He tells the baker, "Your dream means you’re going to be killed, executed in three days." Joseph has a spiritual gift of dreaming and interpreting dreams. That’s his gift. He can do that. God gives him an opportunity to use his gift.

He helps somebody with their dreams while he’s waiting for the fulfillment of his dream. God had given him a dream when he was 17 years old, he’s in his 20s now. The years have passed while all this is taking place, since he’s worked at Pharaoh’s house and been in prison for a while, years have passed. And he’s ministering. Look, listen. If you want to see God show up in your detour, hook up with some other folk on their detour and be a minister.

You don’t have to be sophisticated, you don’t have to have a college degree or a seminary degree, you just have to have a gift that you’re willing to let God use. And he says God is going to use it because he says at the end of verse 8, "Do not interpretations belong to God?" He says this is a God moment. Don’t miss the God moment just because you’re on a detour. Because the detour is a God moment.

God wants to use you in your detour. Noah ministered while he waited for rain. Ruth ministered while she waited for God to change her situation. Rebecca ministered while she was waiting for God to give her a mate. They all ministered during the period of detour. Don’t miss your ministry because of your misery. 2 Corinthians 1 says comfort others with the comfort that you need for yourself.

Whatever you need God to do for you, do for some other folk who are in a situation like you. They're jailed up just like you. Because God not only wants us vertical, He wants us horizontal. He wants us connected both ways to love the Lord your God with all your heart and your neighbor. Encourage someone in the same situation as you're in.

You remember Dorothy, don't you, with The Wizard of Oz? Dorothy is caught between a good witch and a bad witch. They fighting. And she winds up in a place she never wants to be. Dorothy wants to be home in Kansas. That's her destiny. She wants to be back home in destiny, that's where she wants to go. But she finds out the only way she gonna get to where she wants to go is by going to a place called Oz and talking to a wizard. The Wizard of Oz.

So she’s told if she will go to the wizard, the wizard can get her to her destiny. And so they all sing, "We’re off to see the wizard, the wonderful wizard of Oz." But to get from where she is to where the wizard is, she has to follow the yellow brick road. She’s got to walk down the road. But we don’t know how long this road is, we don’t know how long it’s going to take to get there.

She just knows she has a destiny. She’s got to get to the wizard in order to get home to Kansas. But along the way, she gonna run into some problems. She got the wicked witch, she got flying monkeys, she got all kind of stuff that’s going to be messing with her and she only trying to get home. But along the way, she runs into a lion with no courage, a tin man with no heart, and a straw man with no brain and they form a small group.

They form a small group and they minister to one another, they encourage one another because they all are trying to get to the same place. They trying to get to the wizard. So you and I ought to hook up and say, "We’re off to see the Savior, the wonderful Savior of all." They hook up with other folk who are struggling too because they all trying to get to their destiny. One needs a heart, one needs a brain, one needs courage, one needs Kansas, but they all need the same wizard. Don’t travel your detour alone.

The first way you can prove that you’re on God’s road, on the detour to destiny even though you’re in a jail, a place you don’t want to be, is that you're persecuted for doing right. The second way is God proves His presence by showing up with little things at least two that verifies He’s still with you. The third way is you don’t carry the journey alone, but you use whatever gift God has given you to minister to others along the way.

And finally, the way you know your detour is the right smack place that you are supposed to be is when God postpones your release. Watch this now. He interprets the dream, he interprets the dream of the cupbearer, "You’re going to live in three days." Baker, "You’re going to die." Now that was bad news for the baker but it was great help for the baker because when the baker was told he’s going to die in three days, that gave him three days to prepare.

That he would not have otherwise had to get ready to meet his maker. Verse 14, "Only keep me in mind when it goes well with you, and please do me a kindness by mentioning me to Pharaoh and get me out of this house, out of this jail. For I was in fact kidnapped from the land of the Hebrews and even there I have done nothing that should have put me in this dungeon." He said, "Look, now I just gave you some good news. So just do a brother a favor."

"When you get up out of here, tell Pharaoh who I am. That I’m here and I didn’t do anything wrong. Would you take me to Pharaoh?" That’s not something hard to ask somebody to do who you just gave life-saving ministry to. He says, "Remember me to Pharaoh because I want to get out of here." He says, "To get me out of this house." So he was not happy to be there.

He wasn’t oh praise God I’m miserable in jail. No. He said, "I want out." Verse 23, "Yet the chief cupbearer did not remember Joseph but forgot him." You are exactly where you’re supposed to be when it looks like God has you on the precipice of deliverance. When it looks like He’s just about to come through for you, when it looks like victory is right around the horizon and it turns left.

When God goes left on you just when it looked like He was going to deliver you, that’s proof positive you are right where you’re supposed to be. Now I know what you’re saying, "Why did God delay?" There was a specific reason why He postponed the deliverance, but when God brings you to the edge of deliverance and it turns on you, then you’re like Martha and Mary, "Do You not care?"

You're like the disciples in the boat, "Carest Thou not that we perish?" How can You be letting me go through this? How can You let me go through this if in fact You care? It looked like it was the right person, it looked like it was the right job, it looked like it was the right finance, it looked like it was a blessing, it looked like, it looked like, it looked like, it looked like, and now it’s gone left on me.

You're right smack-dab where God wants you to be. Because it says and the cupbearer forgot him. God, why can’t you help him remember a brother? Why can’t you put my name on his mind? And it says he didn’t remember him for two years.

Guest (Male): Dr. Evans will return with a final word of encouragement and assurance as he wraps up this message called The Proof of Detours. You can get the complete full-length version of today’s message on CD, USB flash drive, or digital download either on its own or as a part of Tony’s complete nine-message series Joseph: Detours to Destiny.

A collection filled with biblical encouragement for anyone trying to trust God through life’s unexpected turns. And for a limited time when you request the audio collection with your donation to support Tony’s ministry, we’ll also include his companion book, Detours: The Unpredictable Path to Your Destiny. Together, these resources will help strengthen your confidence that God is still at work even when the road ahead seems uncertain.

As always you can reach out to our resource center at 1-800-800-3222 to get all the details. That’s 1-800-800-3222 or visit us online at tonyevans.org. Sometimes it seems like the end of one detour in life lands us right at the beginning of another. Well, tomorrow Dr. Evans will let us in on the reason for that as he continues his look at the life of Joseph. Right now, though, he’s back with a final word to wrap up today’s lesson.

Dr. Tony Evans: Anybody here stuck and you feel like God has forgotten you? But you’re being righteous, He’s shown you little clues of His presence, and you’re willing to use your gift to minister to somebody else and it still gets postponed. You are perfectly situated because what you’re going to discover are the proofs when God is taking you off the detour and back on the main road to destiny.